What is an orgasm ?
Although, there is a major controversy and debate about the existence of clitoral or vaginal orgasm and some argue whether it exists at all. Liberal admission by women and anatomical changes during orgasm confirm its existence.
Medically an orgasm may be described as a feeling of explosive, powerful and extreme sensation within oneself during discharge of accumulated erotic tension. A satisfying orgasm spreads a feeling of extreme pleasure and happiness in the body.
Both genders may attain this condition with the help of variety of sources such as - sexual intercourse, masturbation, viewing erotic and arousing images / movies, nocturnal dreams. An orgasm is the peak of sexual pleasure.
According to several surveys and and voluntary admission by women of all countries, it has been believed that only 25 percent of women enjoy climax during sex with their partners and the rest either fail to reach it or experience in a poorly manner.
There is another process called Myotonia - whereby the muscles tense and start flexing and contracting. These are two basic responses to continual stimulation. Orgasm is the ultimate part of a sexual cycle after which the sexual act / play ends.
Female Orgasm
When a woman becomes aroused as a consequence of physical and psychological stimulation -
- Blood pressure starts increasing leading to swelling of vulva
- Fluid starts passing through the vaginal walls making it wet
- The top of the vagina expands, the lower part of the vagina becomes firm, the clitoris and nipples stiffen and the breasts increase in size
- Breathing quickens and heart beat rises considerably
- Sweat forms on the neck and chest
- And ultimately she explodes feeling rhythmic contraction. Typically, female orgasm lasts longer than male orgasm and also takes longer time to arrive.
- Gradually the body becomes normal again and breathing slows down
#1) Clitoral Orgasm : Intense clitoral stimulation leads to this sort of orgasm which is sharp, intense, violent and centre mainly in the genital region and may last about 10 to 20 seconds. A woman enjoys and feels good with this type of orgasm but it cannot give the peak of pleasure as deep vaginal orgasm does. A lot of women mainly teens are in the habit of enjoying this kind of orgasm at the time of masturbation doing it herself or helped by her partner. The problem with this type of enjoyment may sometimes become painful due to rapid stimulation of the clitoris and may even render the clitoral region hyper-sensitive.
It has been disclosed in various studies by females mainly teens that they either use fingers directly to apply intense stimulation of the clit or indirectly with a vibrator, a shower head or even with their partners mouth. Some women may like direct stimulation with fingers while there are many who do it indirectly. So, this may be called one pattern of female behaviour to enjoy orgasm.
#2) Nipple Orgasm : Continuous stimulation of nipples cause pituitary gland to release oxytocin, a hormone which is well known for its extensive roles in reproductive functions and in orgasm. The nipples are an erogenous zone, highly sensitive in a woman's body and connected to the genital area. So, application of continuous stimulation or playing with the nipples may arouse a woman's appetite for orgasm.
All women are generally highly sensitive with their breasts irrespective of sizes and any exception to this points to malfunction of nerves. Constant stimulation of the nipples by twisting, rubbing, pulling, pinching or sucking may make a woman reach an orgasm.
#3) Vaginal Penetration Orgasm : This is probably the most important and normal of all types of orgasms attained during normal sexual act. If the partner penetrates only at the mouth of the vagina and not deeper, it feels just enjoyable. When the partner penetrates inside deeper the pleasure also becomes deeper. The deeper the penetration, the stronger the rhythm of explosion.
To and fro movements, circular movements and using fingers simultaneously add more pleasure and sensation. This type of orgasm is liked by all women as this is normal, enjoyable and less likely to cause any discomfort.
#4) G-Spot Orgasm : There is a spot inside the vagina extremely sensitive to deep pressure and is called G-spot or Grafenbarg spot, named after the first modern physician who discovered it. It can be felt through the anterior or front wall of the vagina about 5 centimeters from the entrance. The researchers found a G-Spot in every woman they examined and it is the homologue of the male prostate.
All women have a G-spot but the exact location may vary a little from woman to woman. When stimulated well the G-Spot swells and results in orgasm. Some women experience a series of orgasm following stimulation of G-Spot. When properly stimulated the G-Spot enables a woman to experience a level of intense pleasure. At the time of orgasm women also ejaculate a liquid similar to male ejaculate but contains no sperm.
Without a partner, stimulating the G-Spot with fingers or with a non-vibrating dildo for 20 to 30 minutes makes a woman to experience a thundering G-Spot orgasm.
#5) Cervical - Uterine Orgasm : This type of orgasm is probably the strongest of all and can send you to another state of consciousness. It is said to be more powerful, intense than G-spot orgasm and women often react through emotions like feeling joy or pain, urge to love or cry. This type of orgasm feels Godly and has been described in Tantric rituals - how to reach God. Cervix is the gateway to a woman's womb and is the center of energy. According to Taoist reflexology cervix is the 'heart point' in a woman's body.
The size and shape of cervix varies from woman to woman. Observed, women who did not have natural birth often have a circular opening of cervix contrary to women with natural birth(vaginal delivery) possessing almost a vagina-like cervix.
A cervical orgasm is accompanied with strong contractions of vaginal and uterine muscles. Medically, cervix is the lower part of uterus and is about 2 - 3 cm long and is located deep inside the vagina. Best sex position to stimulate the cervix is either from behind or riding your partner on top with back & forth movement. A cervical orgasm generally needs longer time of stimulation. This kind of orgasm knows no limit of pleasure as the energy moves over the entire body and is incomparable with almost anything.


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